Not in relationship vs being 'single'

A really great comment just came through over on the Let Love In private group page. It was regarding 'being single'.

Even though Let Love In is technically a 'love and relationships' course, the deeper issue that is really being examined is our relationship with our own self. It is this relationship that is then reflected back to us toward everything in our outer life: from our love relationships to friends and family relationships, to work relationships, from income to happiness, to health, to life fulfillment. It all comes back to this relationship we have with our self. 

I purposely chose not to use the word 'single' when writing the course. I spent most of my adult life (prior to meeting my now partner) not in long-term relationships. I disliked the word 'single' because it seemed to define me by my relationship status or lack thereof, and so I never called myself that.

You are you, sometimes in relationship, sometimes not. Even if mainly not, you are still you, ultimately whole (or on your way to wholeness) regardless of relationship status. It is the biggest irony that I felt so called to write a relationship course, because I am the biggest champion out there for saying to people, spend time not in relationship to really get to know yourself! I am the last person in the world to view 'not being in relationship' as any kind of failing. It is society that does that, and we feel pressured by it, and feel like something is wrong when we are not in relationship.

I think if more people allowed themselves more 'not in relationship' time, we would likely see a lower divorce rate, and a much higher percentage of healthy, non-co-dependent relationships. And I guess that is why I wrote this course. Not so much so you can attract the one tomorrow, but rather so that when you do attract the one, you do it from a space and a place of absolute wholeness, connection to your self, and love for your self. It is also for those who may be in a relationship right now who want to work on those things within themselves, which make their current union all the healthier, which we can all use a dose of!! x

If you would like more info on the course, please go here. 

(c) Dana Mrkich 2015

Pay What you Can: Let Love In Ecourse

Today, to celebrate Venus going Direct, I'm launching

a Pay What you Can Long Weekend, Thu 3 Sep - Mon 7 Sep

for my Let Love In E-Course.

I've been doing Pay What you Can once a year for Create a Life you Love, but this is the first time it has been offered for this course.  It is a very powerful 28 Step course that you receive over 56 Days. There is a private group forum, weekly webcasts to watch, meditations to do, and plenty of journalling and other processes that you receive every 2nd day.

The course was designed to help you shake up and shift out any lingering patterns that you are ready to clear related to love, allowing you to let in the kind of relationship you deserve. It is ideal for those looking for love, and those currently in relationship who want to sweep out any issues getting in the way of a healthier, happier, stronger, more loving connection.  ENROLHERE NOW!

Relationships: Shifting and triggering

A couple of people emailed me a similar question last week about big changes that are happening in their relationship. One has ended a long-term relationship, while the other is in a good marriage yet has found there is a strong energy connection with someone else. Both asked if there were any insights that could help their respective situations. I've covered this topic in this week's Let Love In webcast, but here's my response in case you are going through something similar: 

Essentially as one person awakens or has a "growth spurt", one of two things are tending to happen: the relationship (and partner) is called to shift to a higher, deeper level or one person shifts while the other doesn't (or they shift in different directions), triggering the end of that union, or resulting in an uncomfortable experience until something changes.

In this new evolutionary cycle we are experiencing the end of karmic relationships and dynamics..that is, the end of the relationships primary purpose being the healing of old wounds and issues, healing inner child and past life stuff etc. As we move into wholeness and are taking greater responsibility for our own emergence, we are connecting in a new way. Our relationships are more now about supporting and encouraging each other to expand into our wholeness, to be all we are here to be, rather than fill someone else's "hole" or hold their stuff for them.

It is also common to meet someone who triggers all of this for you, and increasingly this is happening while people are in relationship with someone else. This then forces the question for people: am I happy in my relationship, am I not? If not, why not? Is there something my partner and I can do/need to do to regain connection and intimacy or is our time done? These triggers are ideally used in a conscious, responsible way. That is, they are an opportunity for a new level of conversation and connection in your current relationship.

Sometimes those coming along are your next mate, albeit unexpected and unplanned, other times they are a soul 'trigger' mate, destined to come along to shake things up and turn you toward your new direction - in love, and other ways also.

Are you finding that there are lots of relationship shifts going on in your lives and around you?

(c) Dana Mrkich 2015

Weekly Webinars!

Hi everyone,

I am pretty excited because this morning I did my very first live webinar!! Even though I've done lots of Youtube videos, this was the first time I broadcast via a live 'Hangouts on Air' so I thank you in advance for your understanding as I'm on a bit of a learning curve.

The webinar was part of a weekly series for my Let Love In participants, but it is up on YouTube now for anyone to watch. I take you through a short meditation on this week's theme which is Connecting with Self, I discuss the week's topics, and go into a Q&A about why we repeat certain patterns.

I LOVED doing this, and will be introducing a Weekly Webinar Series for my regular Energy Message Topics in April!

Onto technical stuff....first thing I noticed in the playback is there was WAY too much time on the Let Love In Daily Summary image, so next time I will toss to and fro between that kind of image and me talking to you,to make it more engaging!!

Hope you enjoy it!

I welcome any suggestions for topics that you would like me to cover in the April Weekly Webinar Energy Message Series. Woohoo how exciting!!!

Here is the link if you can't view the above: http://youtu.be/IgRRw2NxDrM

If you would like to enrol in the current Let Love In, today is Day 1 so there is still a tiny window. Please go here to register. 

Love Dana

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