Not in relationship vs being 'single'

A really great comment just came through over on the Let Love In private group page. It was regarding 'being single'.

Even though Let Love In is technically a 'love and relationships' course, the deeper issue that is really being examined is our relationship with our own self. It is this relationship that is then reflected back to us toward everything in our outer life: from our love relationships to friends and family relationships, to work relationships, from income to happiness, to health, to life fulfillment. It all comes back to this relationship we have with our self. 

I purposely chose not to use the word 'single' when writing the course. I spent most of my adult life (prior to meeting my now partner) not in long-term relationships. I disliked the word 'single' because it seemed to define me by my relationship status or lack thereof, and so I never called myself that.

You are you, sometimes in relationship, sometimes not. Even if mainly not, you are still you, ultimately whole (or on your way to wholeness) regardless of relationship status. It is the biggest irony that I felt so called to write a relationship course, because I am the biggest champion out there for saying to people, spend time not in relationship to really get to know yourself! I am the last person in the world to view 'not being in relationship' as any kind of failing. It is society that does that, and we feel pressured by it, and feel like something is wrong when we are not in relationship.

I think if more people allowed themselves more 'not in relationship' time, we would likely see a lower divorce rate, and a much higher percentage of healthy, non-co-dependent relationships. And I guess that is why I wrote this course. Not so much so you can attract the one tomorrow, but rather so that when you do attract the one, you do it from a space and a place of absolute wholeness, connection to your self, and love for your self. It is also for those who may be in a relationship right now who want to work on those things within themselves, which make their current union all the healthier, which we can all use a dose of!! x

If you would like more info on the course, please go here. 

(c) Dana Mrkich 2015

Shadow and retro time over, into new clarity!

Woohoo Venus is out of shadow, Mercury is direct and I have 5 copies of my friend Jo Kelly's CD Letting Love In to GIVEAWAY for the next 5 people who enrol in my Online Course Let Love In!

All the course info is here: https://danamrkich.leadpages.net/let-love-in/

Listen to a sample of the album's chillout grooves here: http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/jokelly

Coming out of these retrograde/shadow periods is like emerging from a cloud that was making it hard to feel fully 'clear' - or you've been so immersed in getting clear within that you haven't really felt like engaging as you usually would with outer life. That's because those retro times are very much geared toward introspection and review. They are often a time to take stock of where we are at, and look at how we truly feel about our life/work/relationships.

We can be confronted by aspects of our inner workings that are ripe for transformation, and triggered to make changes where changes are due. Yet,even while our foot starts revving the accelerator knowing it's time to get moving in new ways, the retrograde and shadow periods can have us feeling like the handbrake is on, or that the flag guy hasn't yet waved the flag for go time! September was very much like that - a lot was moving and shifting on the inside, but the month was a blur in terms of remembering what we actually did externally?! Anyone else feel like that?

The good thing about planets going direct and coming out of shadow is: handbrake is off, flag is down, lights are green!

All that time re-charging your energy, refreshing your motivation, renewing your clarity, and getting re-inspired is now ready to be put into action!!

If love and relationships are your most desired 'ready for change' life area right now please go to the link at the top of the post and get ready for some serious soul scuba-diving!!

How are you all going? Are you feeling a greater pull to start taking some big new actions? x

(c) Dana Mrkich 2015 

Weekly Webinars!

Hi everyone,

I am pretty excited because this morning I did my very first live webinar!! Even though I've done lots of Youtube videos, this was the first time I broadcast via a live 'Hangouts on Air' so I thank you in advance for your understanding as I'm on a bit of a learning curve.

The webinar was part of a weekly series for my Let Love In participants, but it is up on YouTube now for anyone to watch. I take you through a short meditation on this week's theme which is Connecting with Self, I discuss the week's topics, and go into a Q&A about why we repeat certain patterns.

I LOVED doing this, and will be introducing a Weekly Webinar Series for my regular Energy Message Topics in April!

Onto technical stuff....first thing I noticed in the playback is there was WAY too much time on the Let Love In Daily Summary image, so next time I will toss to and fro between that kind of image and me talking to you,to make it more engaging!!

Hope you enjoy it!

I welcome any suggestions for topics that you would like me to cover in the April Weekly Webinar Energy Message Series. Woohoo how exciting!!!

Here is the link if you can't view the above: http://youtu.be/IgRRw2NxDrM

If you would like to enrol in the current Let Love In, today is Day 1 so there is still a tiny window. Please go here to register. 

Love Dana

x
 

Let Love In!

The March Let Love In 28 Day Online Course is now up for bookings! I wrote this course for those who are ready to move into healthier, more conscious and connected love relationships - whether you are currently in one or not.

9 years ago I decided I was done with my relationship patterns. Exercise after exercise came to me, and I spent a year intensely excavating and shifting my energy in this area, determined to let in the soulmate relationship I knew I was here to have. Finally, as I emerged from that year it happened. Like magic. Well, magic with a lot of soul work preparing me.

Would we have still connected without the soul work? Probably yes, knowing how destiny works. Would have I been in the right emotional space for not only the meeting, but for all the moments of inner child issues and adult issues that come up when you are in a committed relationship with your life partner? Knowing myself, I'd say not.

You might be looking for your one, ready to let go of old patterns, or you may be with your one but still have issues coming up that get in the way of your happiness and harmony. If so, this course is for you. Enrol here now: http://ow.ly/GQCpM

(c) Dana Mrkich 2015

Open yourself to love and life

For anyone who is holding themselves back from loving again or persevering with a dream due to being hurt/disappointed in the past: 

You are here to experience and express that which is in your heart - whether that be great love, a loving home and family, or making the world more beautiful with your spirit, your essence and your gifts. Don’t be scared because of what was. It was terrible. It was tragic. But to not create the love and beauty again that you were born to create, to cut off the joy that wants to be felt due to the fear of the past recurring, is to repeat the past hurt every day. 

Let it go, and open yourself up again to the life and love that wants to pour through you and from you. 

- paraphrased from a beautiful message that came through in a recent Soul Session.

(c) Dana Mrkich 2014

 

Aligning to your best future traintrack

What if you knew that the visions you have of those dreams that are dearest to your heart weren’t just daydreams, but in fact were photos sent to you from your future self? 

What if you found out that the existence of these photos is evidence that these visions of your future are actually a done deal – already existing in a potential future timeline? 

In your journal write a date in the future, that is close enough to make you feel excited, but far enough ahead for it to feel totally possible and realistic. 

Next, write a journal entry as if that day was today. What happened? What did your day look like and feel like? Be as emotionally and physically descriptive as possible. For example: “I am so excited and happy that I have finally met the one! We have been together three months now and are more in love and connected every day!” 

This exercise reminds your energy that your dream isn’t just a dream. It is a done deal, one that you are moving closer toward every day. 

- Excerpt From Let Love In, 28 Day Intensive Online Course.

(c) Dana Mrkich 2014
 

Kaleidoscope of wholeness

As a writer, sometimes a phrase comes out that makes you want to jump up and say yes love that!! "Kaleidoscope of wholeness" was one such phrase that emerged onto the page as I was writing my Let Love In course (current intake underway, next intake will be August!). 

Here's how it came out: "If you want a healthier, deeper, more connected love relationship, one of the things you are really looking for is to experience authentic emotional intimacy with someone. You want someone who can see you, the real, true you, and who isn’t afraid to see the wounded you. You want to feel safe in showing your kaleidoscope of wholeness to someone, which consists of a whole cast of characters and related issues. Likewise, you want someone who is willing and able to show you their wholeness." 

 The kaleidoscope of wholeness honours that we are all works in progress on this evolutionary journey!

(c) Dana Mrkich 2014